A women reaches puberty when she develops curves, boobs and receives that monthly down payment from mother nature. A man reaches puberty when he develops a deeper voice, develops body and muscle mass and grows taller. But if a woman happens to not embody one of these characteristics, it would not take away from her femininity. As long as she had feminine features if not a developed body, or dressed feminine if did not have the features. However, I believe that men have to obey all criteria of masculinity in order to be called a man. A man will never wear dresses, talk with a high voice or not partake in the physical pursuits. Men must cannot have women that are taller than they are. Women cannot be in a relationship with men who are shorter than they are. Okay here is the problem: I once had a friend who I began to like after a serious of hangouts and talk sessions. He was charming, real smooth and had confidence, positive confidence. Yosef was a person who got along with everyone, saw the humor in everything etc. Being a rather small guy never seemed to bother him at all. In fact, where Yosef grew up, the middle east, men of short stature was the norm. Women that he had previously interacted with were of relatively small builds with petite figures too. So perhaps he saw no issue of his physique because where he once lived there had been no issues of height which was why he was content and self-confident. I had liked him a lot, I loved hanging out with him and my friends. However, I never thought to tell him how I felt for I was 5'10 and he 5'6. In those four short inches stood the concrete wall called height, a universally accepted norm of men being bigger than women.
He was amazing but I kept thinking how uncomfortable I would be when he hugged me. The awkwardness of the vision set me so ill at ease that
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